Dear Family, Friends, and ….

I am loyal and a people pleaser. I put myself, last. I put everyone in the family, the community, anywhere first.

But I did one thing in my life selfishly. That happened 13 years ago.

I married my best friend, my partner, my lover, and my husband, Columbus Louis Sobocienski.

So the rest of you, with your opinions, your pre-disdispositioned ideas of who he or I should have been, could have been, or would have been – can suck it.

Happy pre-anniversary baby!

I love you, Colo!

Trude